Submitted by Claire de Lune on
Psychic dependency is just as detrimental as any other form of addiction or co-dependence! There are countless stories of those who have spent thousands of dollars on psychics, to the point of financial ruin! All because they had a need and the psychics had the greed! When you are down, vulnerable and 'out of control' of your own life and you are so wanting to hear a particular answer, it can be so easy to become dependant on the psychic that gives it to you, even if it is the wrong answer. Even if it goes against your own intuition and logic.
Many people say well psychic so-and-so told me it was going to happen, why are you saying the opposite? These same people that get conflicting answers from other readers also tend to 'psychic surf'. They don't like or want to hear what is said and off they go to the next one. They will go from one to another and to another looking for answers, wanting to hear over and over a certain outcome, in fact sometimes demanding it! The bottom line is there is no guarantees! You heard it right here. I don't care what psychic you consult, how good they are, how long they have been doing it. There is no psychic reader that can claim 100% accuracy!
We all are sometimes very lost and needy. Most of us don't seek out a psychic reading unless they are uncertain and confused about their feelings and direction or that of a significant other in their lives. In this state of being though, you are also very vulnerable to becoming dependent on psychic readings to ease this discomfort or pain. Combine that with crossing paths with psychics that can pick up on this and use it to their advantage and as Emeril says "Bam". This can be an explosive and harmful combination if the psychic is not trained and experienced enough to separate themselves from their seekers. It can also be harmful to the seeker if the psychic they choose is less than ethical. You are on your way to, more often than not, the poor house!
Truth is always what you need to seek and getting anything less is not fair to your mind or spirit and very harmful in the end. You may not get the answers you want to hear from our psychics but we hope you will understand that it is only your best interests at heart. By the same token, there can be times when you will get the answers you want to hear, and we may be wrong too! I know it may seem strange to have us telling you about our shortcomings rather than our miraculous results. Accurate Psychic Advice is just so saddened by all the claims psychics make in regards to their abilities that make people believe in them too much! This is a huge reason why people can become dependent. They want to believe so desperately that all those huge hyped up claims are true!
We have had to give people disheartening news so many times, in spite of knowing they want to hear something different. Unfortunately, at times, People are told that an outcome has changed for whatever reason. Free will and choice still always come into play with every single reading. Most of the time we can see why that has happened and what changed the overall outcome and explain it, but sometimes not. This can be very disappointing to the seeker of course, but also to us as we feel as if we have 'failed' them in some way. This is where experience and training come in. How do you tell someone that has been seeking your advice for a number of days, weeks or even months that it has all changed? This is very difficult, but should the client be told? That line unfortunately is crossed by many psychics. They have predicted the same outcome for so long and been accurate with so many others that they themselves cannot believe that it has changed. For some psychics this can be devastating to their egos as well as to their 'track record' and will choose to tell the client what they want to hear, rather than the truth. This is again, where ethics and experience come in.
Unfortunately when the outcome changes, sometimes the person getting the reading is disappointed and angry and will lash out at the psychic, more often than not leaving bad feedback or telling others that the psychic was leading them on or lying etc. This makes it easy to understand why sometimes a psychic will not change the reading once they have given you a certain outcome. You as a seeker cannot blame the psychic, and the psychic should not be made to feel or believe they need to blame themselves. That is just sometimes God's plan and no matter how desperately we want and need answers, sometimes some things are just not meant to be known until we have lived through them.
The best way to avoid this heartache at all times is learn how to be in control of your own life. Learn how to get in touch with yourself and your own intuition. Learn how to take what seems like a hopeless situation and make it into something good. Every experience is a learning experience. If you are heartbroken because a man or a woman has left you, you have lost your job, your life is in a shambles or you are confused and scared, start searching within yourself for answers. If you are going to look to others for answers and help, make sure you are finding people that empower you. People that give you advice on how to deal with yourself and your life, not how to change or control others. Seek out books and people that tell you how to manifest real positive changes in your life, not how to just 'survive' through it.
Find a psychic reader that you feel comfortable with, that proves their abilities to you and stay with them. I always recommend my clients get a second or possibly even a third psychic to look at their situation, but not a million more!
In any situation in life we always need to maintain our own power, even when there are other human beings involved. Getting answers from a psychic can be wonderful and if you have chosen the right reader that is highly accurate, ethical and empowering. Please do not become dependant on psychics! In fact, do not become dependant on anybody. We all need a helping hand and advice in our lives, but we also need to learn to make our own decisions and choices and be responsible for them.
In regards to how often you get a reading. Go by the questions you are asking. If you are given a reading with particular time frames and a general outcome, It's best that you allow this time to pass and the events to play out! In other words if your psychic gets that an outcome will not manifest for approximately 3 months, wait 3 months! Feel free to consult another reader of course for confirmation if you feel it is necessary. It is suggested that you do wait at least a day or so before getting another reading, for this confirmation. If the other reader gives you approximately the same time frames for the same questions, chances are it is going to take that long! Calling for a reading once a week on the same issue does not speed it up! If you have new situations crop up that require a new reading, by all means feel free to question it. These new situations do not pertain to just feelings. We are speaking of actual physical changes or manifestations in your situation or dilemma.
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Anna Ellington
Anna is a natural clairvoyant psychic who has been writing articles for her own website: www.pharrah13.com as well as for www.accuratepsychicadvice.com and many others for the last few years. She has had the 'gift' for as far back as she can recall. “I did not understand it of course as a child. I thought it was perfectly normal to see dead people and angels and fairies and all sorts of cool things."