No matter how spiritual we consider ourselves, some people just plain bug us! We all have individuals in our lives who upset us, irk us, or make us reactive. 

But the truth is, these people are here to help us grow. What if they knocked on your door and said, “Hey, I’ve been sent here as a messenger to remind you to deal with your anger, your impatience, your intolerance, etc. I’m going to do something to push your buttons so that you have an opportunity to choose.” 

Anyone who bugs us is just showing us what we can improve about ourselves.

~ Yehuda Berg